Mom

as we are celebrating mother's day soon, its kinda sad to hear stories which tainted the title of Mothers.Mothers are figures to be respected,love(given/received), responsibilities (mother to child vice versa).to me,my mum,parents took care of me well enough,and i just think that they deserve double the care when the are old from us,and thus hopefully i'm able to provide that,insyallah.however,no matter what they did to us,treated us,we should love and care for them as they bring us to the world.but at times there's ugly side of me pondering to this question. cos,as humans,we all do know that all mother figurines aren't that perfect either.read/heard/saw videos on how 'animal' the mom can be to her own child.how could she?i'm nobody to judge others wrongdoings or whats not.but,as a human being,we need all need to be treated as one right? firstly,am going talk about the mother abusing the child.let's just put it in general context(not zooming into the family backgrounds or the mother's status).if you think its a mistake for you to have a child,why bear one?have you ever ponder if its a mistake,its definitely a mistake of your own choice.you are given choice to choose,if you don't think you are ready for that battleship to be called a mother,you should have avoided at all cause not to be one, right?if you can't stop yourself from making that mistake, and the best solutions before you lose your control abusing the child,making it as a punching bag,you can always get helpline;worst come to worst,avoid the kids by sending them off to people who might appreciate them more. however,its sad to hear the child comes from a broken family;divorce,divorce is a word which i don't pay much attention to. however,if the word neglected aroused,i think,i will begin to judge them without the intention;anyone sane would.why 'build' that sandcastle just for the intention to destroy after that?you are just 'investing' on something good one day and after sometime,you think that investment don't bring you anywhere,you just simply withdraw from it.yes having a child is not easy,mentally emotionally,financially.but if we start the 'investment' feeling motivated why not hold on to your 'share' by trying harder to make it work?where is that motivation drive of yours? no matter how problematic the child is,how he/she look like,behave like,how they are;they are still your own kind.your generation.the seed that you planted,bear,introduce to the world.its YOU who did all that,so how can you say its a burden?its a God's gift.God trusted you to take care of that,but you did not fulfill that trust.why created that bond in the first place? so hence if one fine day,these children refuse to take of you when you need them most,don't you ever dare to speak a word of justice and rights.do you think they don't deserve one from you,too? that child is the product of your love.so you think without love to the other party one day,you can just 'dispose' your product/s somewhere in the bin?how could you?that love for the child and also responsibility to bring him/her up will still continue.it won't end there definitely.the journey has to continue. i would like to salute all the single mothers,mothers who are there for the children,taking care of them without thinking that's a burden in their life,mothers who wanted child and appreciate them when they received them,mothers to be(when they pray so hard to get one),mothers who LOVES their children unconditionally, even to children who think that you mother is not part of the category of A-list mothers,well give it a thought,have your mothers ever give up on you?put you away?desert you away from herself;avoiding you?if they are still there for you,atleast if they still let you allow to stay with them and still wanting to know your well-being or care about whether you are still alive;they still fall under the category of 'dear mom'.they do. & finally,i think,i have the BEST mom in the world.to me.to my family.i love you mom.love you alot.alot.alot.and i'll not betray the trust for you to let me live in this world with your guidance.